About Me

My name is Emily Carmichael (they/she).

I am a queer end of life doula, providing personalised support for the youth and LGBTQ+ community in the end of life space.

I believe that everyone’s life holds unique value, and in times of crisis it is important to reflect on that. I offer a compassionate and inclusive space for a marginalised and under-represented group in end of life care to do exactly that. I believe that through reflecting on what matters to you, you can become better prepared for facing that final transition.

This isn’t exclusive to those actively dying, but for everyone. I strive to be a beacon, and a pillar, a reliable support for those preparing for the end. This means offering emotional support, creating space to process, and educating people on the process of grief, of dying, and the ways in which we can prepare ourselves. I also provide assistance in practical issues, including preparation of wills and advanced care directives, and in providing advocacy for you and your people.

Although I am not a licensed medical provider or therapist, and thus cannot provide these services, I believe my work is important and will make a difference in you and your support networks’ lives.

My Why

When I was 19, my best friend died by suicide. She had cancer, and without the right support around her, she felt isolated and afraid. This is unfortunately a particularly common experience for the LGBTQ+ community, and it’s something I don’t want anyone to have to feel. So if I can offer support to people who may be going through something similar, or who want to plan in case the worst happens, then that is what I am going to do.

There are very few queer End of Life Doulas, and even fewer who are young, making it very hard for people in this position to find experienced care from people in their demographic. I want to change that, and make care and support accessible for all.